So what’s great about this system is that there are 8 types, but you only need to figure out 3 things about her to know her type.
The first thing you need to find out is her timeline. Tester / Investor. You need to know that in the first 30 seconds to a minute. The second thing you need to find out is if she’s a Denier or Justifier. You need to know that before you start touching, or before you change locations with her or plan a date. And the third is if she is a Realist or Idealist. That will determine how you position yourself but it won’t come into play until she starts thinking about relationships with you.
That’s not to say that you can’t figure out all 3 lines much faster, and know her exact type, but generally those are like the DEADLINES.
You’ll want to have an idea of her timeline or Tester or Investor before a couple minutes of talking to her. You’ll want to know her sex line or Denier or Justifier before you move locations and you’ll want to know her relationship line Realist or Idealist before she starts thinking relationships with you.
So you have a couple tools her – first of call, on this website you have the profiler that you can use, it’s pretty damn accurate – if you meet a new woman just fill in the questions in the profiler and it will tell you with pretty good accuracy what type she is.
You also have the time line, sex line and relationship line sections that came before this one. If you’re not sure exactly, you can listen to those and see if you can match her behaviors to one of the descriptions.
Then there are other clues…
Like with a Tester – she is going to have more guys around her than women. Some are tricky though, remember this is the one that women fake the most. But Testers will have a shorter attention span prefers changing the topic rapidly, be more into multitasking, texting people while she’s having a conversation with someone else (guys or girls) The Tester will usually be OK with compliments, more unaffected by them than anything else. While an Investor takes a compliment more seriously – it’s a bigger risk but if it works there’s more of a reward.
Then there’s Denier and Justifiers… one is her religious upbringing, which isn’t always accurate but it’s a great clue if you don’t have anything else – a Denier will usually still be consistent with her religious upbringing while a Justifier won’t be religious at all or even rebel against her upbringing.
Here’s a good one – her health and safety – Deniers are usually much more careful with her health and safety – less likely to be smokers, less like likely to do drugs… Another one – if a girl has a tattoo, especially if she has more than one tattoo – that’s a GREAT sign she’s a Justifier. Justifiers are more likely to take risks with safety – they will go somewhere with a guy they don’t know very well – they’ll get in a car with him on the first date; she’ll even go on vacation with him for the first date sometimes. Also Justifiers are more comfortable with being touched aggressively by guys, Deniers aren’t. Also – how comfortable they are with sex talk. Justifiers will talk about sex openly when they first meet someone, while Deniers will get shy and embarrassed.
And finally; Realists and Idealists. Realists are more careers focused – her schooling or job is her priority… Don’t get that confused with flaking, Realists and Idealists both flake – Realists flake because of work and Idealists flake to hang out with another guy. Realists believe that women are equals with men and can be just as powerful and successful, and Idealists think that men and women should have different roles. Realists are also the type to take care of other people in their life, like their family and friends, while Idealists usually end up with other people pampering her… think little princess.
Finding out her type is great because it lends itself to a natural curiosity – which results in easy conversation. It also helps getting you interested and listening to a woman properly – instead of coming off indifferent or bored.
It can even be a fun game – where you’re interested – and you’re excited to get more information from them. And once you uncover the clues, you begin to understand what they want, their motivations in life, and of course what they find attractive. And you can then emphasize those parts of your personality that you know they will respond to.
For example, if you are with a girl who is an Investor – it’s VERY scary to an Investor if a guy is flirting really hard and making her seem special right away. A Tester is fine with that – she does it herself all day long, so she knows the game. But an Investor will lose a LOT of trust if you start showing that she’s special too soon – you need to make her invest.
And as you get more practice in identifying types, you’ll start to be able to do it faster. At first, you’ll be looking for clues, and thinking a bit about the system, but then later on once you get more experience, you’ll start to be able to do it much faster, and you’ll realize how accurate and powerful the model really is.
And once you become a guy that KNOWS women like this – who can tell the different types, and do it quickly – is an expert on women.
Think about scientists studying birds. The very first thing that they do is classify them into different types. That allows them to understand their behavior and make all kinds of predictions on how that bird will act in different situations. For example they might know that one type of bird will fly south in the winter, while another one might not. And they can look and say, that bird is NOT going to work on building his nest right now because in 3 days he’s going to fly south.
With women – you might be at a bar talking to a woman and find out she’s a Denier and KNOW that she isn’t very likely to go home with you that night. That way you can just get her number, and not risk the rejection of trying to push her to leave with you right then and there.
Many successful companies give their employees personality tests before hiring them. The reason why is because it gives so much predictive information before the company can decide to hire them or not.
It’s the same way with women – once you know what type you get along with the best – you can shortcut the entire process. So you can talk to a woman for a couple minutes and know exactly how everything will turn out if you get involved with her. It can literally save you years of possible heartache and frustration being with the wrong woman.
Alright well time to test your knowledge again… and you might want to review this section and the three sections before it before moving on, because I’m going to test your mind reading skills… alright good luck.